By Anna Mae Areja - Etonline Correspondent

He is that one person that comes into your life by accident. He brings out the worst in you. You do not want him to be in your life. He used to make you happy, then suddenly he became one toxic person that you do not want in your life. He used to be your saviour, but now he is your worst enemy. He is your superman and you are his kryptonite. Just a scratch to his ego weakens his whole being and he becomes vulnerable. It may take a long time for him to heal. He may even never heal at all because when his ego was crushed, he might be able to forgive but he will never forget. He pushes you to the limit. You hate him, you fight with him, you argue with him every single day even about the littlest things. He is the exact opposite of your dream guy, or the guy you once fell in love with.

However, believe it or not, he is your soulmate, your destiny, your other half. Why? Love has no boundaries and no limitations. Despite the misery, the pain, the hardship, you chose to stay and find ways to make it work. Both of you do not know the words "giving up." Sometimes, you will push each other down because of the pain and tears and harsh words that break your hearts, fills you with anger and regret. But you still choose to be together. It was, is, and will always be a choice. And that is the key in every relationship -- making a CHOICE and choosing to stay.

I did, and I felt better even when faced with the worst situations. I manage to be calm and not stress myself too much. But I am just human, with my low days. I still feel angry, but every morning when I wake up, I always start my day with a prayer

Cheers to the wonderful women out there who give their all for love, who love to the fullest... 

.. until there is nothing left. Even when you cannot bear the pain, keep on loving. You are not stupid, as others might say. Your love is pure and true. Even when your mind, heart, body, and soul are just so tired of the pain that you do not feel anything anymore.